Here are 20 tips on how you can get zest and excitement into your love life:

1 Change your bedroom decor. Novelty brings excitement. Rearrange the furniture. Put a mirror on the ceiling. Add sensual satin sheets, new sheets in your mate’s favorite colors, incense, fresh flowers, and perhaps a red bulb in your bed-, side lamp. Mist the room with perfume. When storing your linens, place nice-smelling soap among them for a pleasant scent.

2. Greet your partner at night in a new negligee or a see-through blouse—or if you always wear pants or jeans, wear a dress or a skirt-and-blouse combination.

3. Read an erotic book together for stimulation.

4. Discuss your fantasies. An individual may have a fantasy for years but he or she may be embarrassed about it. Many men want their wives to seduce them but never say so, and women often want to seduce their husbands but are afraid of being thought of as being overly aggressive.

5. Take a bubble bath or shower, together. Soap each other.

6. Do the exciting things that you did during the courtship. For example, kiss each other in the car before going into the house when you have been out together.

7. Exercise. Lose weight if necessary. Exercise together to focus on your bodies. Being out of tune with your body diminishes the enjoyment you get from your love life.

8. Go on a healthy diet together for more energy. Also, eat the same food as one way of building sexuality up, since this is another way of focusing on your bodies together.

9. Compliment each other. Focus on some aspect of your mate’s body. Say, “You look great in that outfit,” or “I like your new haircut,” or “I love the way your eyes light up when you laugh.”

10. Take a vacation or a weekend trip together or just go to a hotel or motel for an evening. Try one with a water bed. Getting away from routine and daily pressures does wonders for your love life.

11. Have a candlelight dinner with your favorite dishes and perhaps some wine.

12: Learn to massage each other. Take -a massage class together or read a book on massage.

13. Have an evening of sensual touching. Use oils and explore each other’s bodies.

14. Take a belly-dance course, then show your mate what you have learned.

15. Learn to dance together. Go out dancing or dance together at home. Dancing is a sensual body movement that can be very seductive.

16. Talk to each other and relax together before going to bed. Silently watching television does little to put you in the mood for love.

17. Take a meditation course together to help you learn to relax.

18. Leave playful or seductive or loving notes for each other around the house.

19. Listen to some new exciting music in your bedroom together.

20. Don’t be afraid to be daring. Do what you feel like doing. For example, seduce your partner while watching television.

Then when their daughter, Rossini, arrived, it seemed that her drive for sex suddenly diminished substantially. Lucky for her, her husband has an open mind, giving his full understanding to her sudden coldness.

Why had her libido suddenly diminished? Had the sudden loss of her desire anything to do with fatigue and stress? What they didn’t know then was that the hormone prolaction, which triggers milk production, also curbs the urge for lovemaking.

Libido changes for any number of reasons. Today, as women seek help, doctors are studying the factors that cause decreased libido. Surely, there are solutions to such problems.

Here is a list of 5 cures for the most common culprits on diminishing sexual desire:

1. Sleep Well. The treatment is easy and inexpensive: seven to nine hours of shuteye a night. If you’re experiencing insomnia, try to practice good sleep habits. Maintain a regular sleep/wake schedule, get at least 20 minutes of aerobic exercise three days a week, and avoid caffeine within eight hours of bedtime. Don’t consume more than one alcoholic beverage at night and don’t go to bed on a full or an empty stomach.

2. Exercise Wisely. Most of the news about exercise and sex is good. According to one study, aerobic exercise (an hour a day) has been shown to increase sexual frequency and responsiveness in men, and researchers assume it gives women the same libidinal zing.

Extreme exercise, however, may cause a backlash in the bedroom by decreasing blood testosterone levels. Furthermore, women who lose their periods due to overexercising may also lose vaginal lubrication.

To reap exercise benefits, be sure to maintain a moderate workout schedule, increase the intensity of your regimen gradually, and consume enough calories to pre-serve a healthful level of body fat.

3. Beat Depression. “Depression has a constellation of symptoms, including loss of interest in sex,” says a psychologist. Exactly how depression undermines sex drive physiologically is unclear. Psychologically, though, the link is obvious. “People who are depressed don’t feel good about themselves,” says one expert. The good news is that once depression is treated, libido usually returns.

4. Watch Those Anti-Depressants. Indeed, up to half of the people taking selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs) may be victims of this side effect. These drugs alter the balance of serotonin, which can interfere with sexual function.

Fortunately, there are ways around the problem. You can decrease the dosage (with your physician’s help) or wait two to six months to see if your body builds up a tolerance to the drug. Or ask your doctor about taking a drug holiday.

5. Manage Stress. If you suspect that stress is causing low libido, find time to decompress by taking a bath or a long walk early in the evening.

There are some steps you can take to make it a little easier to be a full-time single father. One of the first things that you will want to do is to join a single parents group in your local area. It will be best if you can find a group geared towards single fathers. You can receive tips and advice from other fathers who understand what you are going through.

If you are a single father of a child who’s mother has some involvement in the child’s life, you must keep the peace with your son or daughter’s mother. Try to work with their mother to arrange the best options for her visitation with the children. Do not talk negatively about the children’s mother in front of the kids no matter how angry you are with her. If you need to have a serious talk with your ex, call or meet with her when the children are not home. (This might even mean you need to leave the kids with a trusted babysitter for a couple hours).

Make a conscious effort to be more attentive to your children and to share your feelings with them. This is not always easy for men to do. However, keeping the lines of communication open is a key ingredient to being a successful parent. This is even more important if you are the main parent who is in the child’s life. When they are feeling hurt and angry, happy or said, you need to be there to listen to your kids and to share your own thoughts and emotions with them.

Take a cooking class so that you can prepare healthy meals for your children. If you are not a good cook or do not know much about cooking, you really should take some classes. You want to be able to prepare good tasting and healthy meals for your children. It is not a good idea to rely on fast food and takeout all the time to feed the kids.

As a single father it is not likely that you will have a quiet morning before work anytime soon. In fact, you will probably need to get up earlier than ever in the morning. It takes awhile to get the kids up for bed, feed them breakfast and get them heading off to school in time.

There are some steps you can take to make the mornings go a little smoother. If your children are not old enough to get themselves ready for school or daycare each morning, you might want to lay out their clothes the night before. If you pack lunch for the kids, try to get together all non-perishable items for their lunch the night before.

Make certain the kids have their homework completed the night before. Help them to remember to put all their books and homework back in their backpacks before going to bed. You should sign any papers they need for school before going to bed as well so that you are not racing to get paperwork ready in the morning.

You need to be actively involved in your children’s lives whether you have sons or daughters. Attend their sports and other activities as often as possible. Ask your children about school each day even when you need to drag details about their day from them. You want to know about your children’s interests, their friends and how they are doing in school.

Do not feel bad if you need to ask a trusted women for some help if you have a daughter. There might be some topics that your daughter feels uncomfortable discussing with you or vice versa. It is fine to ask your daughter’s grandmother, aunt or another trusted adult female friend if they will be there when your daughter has questions or concerns that you feel you cannot adequately talk with her about. Just make sure your daughter has someone to talk to about those issues. Talk to your daughter on your own as much as possible.

Find someone you can trust in the event of the need for emergency childcare. There might be times when you need a babysitter unexpectedly. This might be due to your child or children getting out of school early or even a family emergency. Find someone you can trust who will be willing to help in a situation such as this. It might be a family member or a close friend who you have known for years.

Being a single parent is not always easy no matter how hard you try to be prepared. Financial and emotional challenges due arise. Be on the lookout for places that you can go for added support or helpful resources. This might be your church, your family doctor and even your children’s pediatricians. There are often services within a community to help single parents. As mentioned before, do not be afraid to ask for help as a single father.

Be an excellent role model for your child or children. Teach your son or sons to be a responsible man who respects women. Show your daughters that there are good men in this world that can be trusted. Work hard to provide a good life for your children and live by a good set of values so that they can look up to you. This will go a long way in helping you to be a successful parent.

Here is the bottom of this super luxury toy car.

Salvation for the terminally distracted lies in a very simple technique used by teachers, therapists, and mediators called “active listening.” If you use these techniques while she’s telling you about what’s-her-name’s boyfriend and how he won’t commit, and how she can’t find pants that fit, and how you still need to clean up the garage, and wuh whaah wuh whah whahhhhhh…. Sorry, spaced out there for a second. Just try active listening. It works.

There are three main components to active listening: body language, asking questions, and summarizing.

Body Language

Ever wonder why your wife gets upset when you sit there “listening” to her with your arms and legs crossed, facing away from her and staring at the wall? It’s because your body is screaming out that you’d rather be doing absolutely anything other than sitting there listening to her. Use your body to show her that you’re paying attention:

- Stop whatever you’re doing: Put down your beer, the sports section, whatever, and actually lean slightly toward her.
- Make eye contact: Try to maintain it for about 80 percent of the time.
- Open up: Uncross your legs and arms, and sit in a relaxed posture.
- Acknowledge: Nod your head in agreement, or furrow your brow with empathy.
- Give a few “uh-huh”s to let her know you’re still with her. Be careful not to start nodding like a bobble head, or she’ll know you’ve drifted off again, starring in that beer commercial in your mind.

Ask Questions

Asking questions is the easiest way to show that you’re listening, and that you actually care about what she’s saying. Ask open-ended questions to elicit more information. For example, ask “How did you feel about that?” or “Could you give me an example of what you mean?” Avoid questions that will put her on the defensive, such as “What the hell were you thinking?”

Summarize
This is a more advanced technique that requires some practice to master. It involves collecting the main points and expressing them back to her. You’ll start a summary with “So, if I understand what you’re saying …” or “Am I right that you’re point is . . .”The risk here is that you’ll talk over her, which is almost as bad as not listening in the first place. Be patient, let her finish what she has to say, and wait for a chance to summarize.

Remember, you don’t have to really care about anything she’s saying, but if you open up, acknowledge, ask questions, and summarize, she’ll think you do. And that’s all that really matters. Finally, keep in mind that all of this will help you with that other related skill she’d like to see some improvement on: “How to Remember What the Hell She Said Just Yesterday.”

You’ll need to find at least two or three great gifts every year (birthday, anniversary, and Christmas/Hanukkah). There are two main categories of gifts from which you can choose: things and experiences. Things are easier to acquire, but are less memorable. Experiences take more leg work, but have a greater “wow” factor.

If your wife is laying down some serious hints that there’s something she really wants, you damn well better deliver. Of course, she’s setting you up for failure, since the best you’re likely to do is just meet her expectations. So, you’ve got to go above and beyond. If she’s expecting a piece of jewelry, have the maitre d’ at your restaurant deliver it with dessert (you have already made reservations at someplace special, haven’t you?). If she wants new skis, pick her up from work on Friday with them already on the roof rack, wrapped up with a bow, and whisk her off to the slopes for the weekend. If she loves flowers, have a bouquet delivered every month for a year.

Now, if your wife hasn’t given you any clues, don’t panic. Seize this opportunity to deliver something truly memorable: an experience she’ll remember forever. The two main categories of experiences are evenings out and trips. Don’t have any ideas? Don’t worry. Take a minute to think about a memorable meal you had in the past, a trip you took way back when, her favorite movie, TV show, book, whatever. Now you’ve got plenty of ideas.

Remember that special meal you two had when you first started dating? You could take her back to the same place, or you could bring the place to you. Try hiring a personal chef to re-create that memorable meal at home. Contact the American Personal Chef Association (www.personalchef.com) or the U.S. Personal Chef Association (www.hireachef.com) for more information.

How about trips? Remember your first getaway together? Or has she always talked about a trip she took in college, and how shed love to go back there with you? Most airlines sell package deals to lots of major cities, including airfare, hotel, and even meals.

She’d probably love a weekend getaway at a bed-and-breakfast somewhere. Check BBonline.com, find one nearby, and book it for that special weekend. Ask the folks at the inn if there are any nice restaurants nearby that they’d recommend. They may also have some pull to get you a reservation or a great table. Also, be sure to tell them you’re celebrating a special occasion. They may bump you up to a better room.

Another strategy is to pay attention to her favorite movies, TV shows, and books. It will take some work, but you could plan something based on a particular favorite. She loved About a Boy. There are lots of weekend deals to London.

She can’t turn off the Eukanuba Tournament of Champions. Take her to a dog show in New York. Is she addicted to the Food Network? Enroll in cooking classes (together, of course). If your wife loves tennis, get tickets to a local USTA tournament (don’t get tickets to the Anna Kournikova match, that’s just too obvious).

Or try planning a getaway close to home. Many of the big hotels do most of their business during the week with corporate clients. So they occasionally offer incentives to get people in for the weekend. Get online and check their websites. Book a weekend, which will probably include the room, dinner, breakfast, and some other perk like tickets to a show. One phone call, and you’ve got a great gift she’ll love.

Finally, as a last resort, try eBay. It’s an amazing resource for stuff you never knew existed. Just search on anything she might be interested in, and you’re almost guaranteed to find any number of items to bid on. If you know her favorite author, see if you can find an autographed first edition. Or, better,still; try to find some lost heirloom from her childhood, like a rare stuffed animal or toy she loved.

Forget Her Not (or You’re Dead Meat)
Now that you know how to find her a great gift, you’ve got to remember to buy it for her well in advance of the big day. One useful strategy is to backtrack from her birthday, your anniversary, or Christmas/Hanukkah, and find another holiday about a month or so prior. Then, use that holiday as your reminder to get in gear and find her a gift for the upcoming big one. For example, my anniversary is October 9, so I use Labor Day as a reminder to start thinking about anniversary plans. You can also automate the whole process if you do a lot of shopping online. Many of the big e-trailers, like Amazon.com, let you set up reminders of important upcoming dates.

The key here is to really be creative, and customize everything to her. Remember that for most women, the personal touch is worth a lot, so expend a little energy and save yourself.

The first thing we’ll do is help you figure out what you’re feeling, and then we’ll work on the best way to express those feelings.

Before we get started, let me clarify that the feelings we’re talking about here are those embarrassing ones you’ve been taught to keep buried way down deep inside since you were a kid. Sure, you’re aware of the profound sense of joy inspired by cold beer, hot wings, or that Pam Anderson-Tommy Lee home video, but those are not exactly the feelings your wife is longing for you to share. She wants to know about your fears and frustrations (also, jealousy and insecurity, just not when they’re inspired by the Pam Anderson video). You know, the girly stuff.

There are a couple of ways we can begin to get in touch with our feelings. One is to think back on moments when you were angry or sad or frustrated. If your wife dragged you to see Bridget Joneses Diary, you probably felt all three. Another strategy would be to focus on your own emotions moving forward. If you’re having a tough day at work or you’re playing a miserable round of golf take a moment to ask yourself a few questions:

1. What is this emotion I’m feeling?
2. Why am I feeling this way?
3. What, if anything, can I do about it?

Recognize that it’s okay to feel this way. As you begin to get comfortable with acknowledging your own emotions, eventually you can begin to ask these questions out loud (try talking out loud while looking in the mirror). Eventually, you’ll find that when your wife asks you what’s wrong, you’ll have an acceptable answer for her.

The Power of “Because”
The next challenge is to give her a satisfactory answer. If you finally take the huge step of telling her you’re frustrated or depressed or scared, but then clam up when she asks you why, you’re only halfway there. What you really need to do is complete this statement:

I feel [name emotion] because [explain reason for emotion].

A great way to learn how to talk about your feelings to her satisfaction is to listen to how she talks about her feelings. She’ll give you more details than you ever wanted to know, but that means she expects the same in return.

Don’t worry, you won’t need to open up completely right away, sitting up all night gabbing, eating Nutter Butters and wearing your jammies and those fuzzy pink slippers (no matter how comfortable they may be). She’s been so starved for emotional nourishment from you that she could OD if you give her too much at once. Dole it out in dribs and drabs, a little sadness here, a bit of frustration there. If you ration your emotions correctly, you won’t need to shed a tear for years.

Dating without flirting is no fun. It keeps you excited, involved and active all the time you flirt with someone. While flirting you are given your full 100% attention to someone and it does not only involve talking. Touching, smiling, winking and playing are some the other attributes of it. While to some flirting comes naturally, others need to gain the knowledge and start flirting. Either ways, it’s an easy and enjoyable thing to do during one’s life.

Broadly there are two aspects involved in flirting – Communication and Body language.

Communication:

• Make sure you smile or laugh in your conversations. It sends positive vibrations to your partner.
• Whisper gently in the ears of your partner often. This is an indication that you like him or her.
• Ask few personal questions especially on their relationship status – single, separated etc.

Body Language:

• Maintain an eye contact. This helps in building rapport and passes on the signal to your partner that you are interested in them.
• Wink at times especially after someone amongst both of you pass a comment.
• Lean inward to show that you are very much interested in the guy or gal you are dating.
• Stroking or toying your hair is another recommended thing to do.

Make sure that especially on your maiden date; the two of you strike the same notes. Keep conversing with each other and don’t contend. Therefore avoid debatable topics and talk more about each other’s interests, likings, hobbies and what are they doing on the coming weekend? If you are meeting up in a restaurant avoid alcohol if it’s your first date. Also ensure that you drop her till the most convenient point. This makes her think that you have a sense of belonging and she might stay safe while she is with you. Last but not the least; try to avoid talking about sex while flirting or on your first date. This will highlight that you are too impatient and have only one thing on mind.

Dos:

• Select a quality resort or hotel for a comfortable stay. You should avoid too cheap places with shabby outlook. Select something which suits your pocket and lives up to the expectation of the occasion.
• Gift her from a select or limited range of perfumes or ornaments. This will set up her mood and you both can enjoy the evening walking around or sitting at serene location.
• Ask her about her future plans; listen to her and her desires. It is important that you both share your feelings and make each other feel at ease.
• Carry a digital camera or cam coder. Record the most thrilling and exciting moments with your partner and share with them. Make them feel that they are someone very special in your life.

Don’ts:

• Going to friend’s place to stay for a vacation is a strict no. Make sure you both get sufficient time alone, away from the hustle bustle of your daily mundane routine. Staying with friends and chatting around can also be done during weekend breaks and dinner get together.
• Avoid going to the place where you have been many times. Try and explore newer destinations. Ideally a place which is new to both of you should be selected. Discover and have fun exploring newer places, styles and cultures together.
• Avoid attending business calls or friend’s call. It will turn off your partner. Remember, you are on a vacation with her and she is the most important person for you at that moment.
• Praising any other woman. They generally like to be praised about themselves. So if you have noticed her new hairdo or nail color or new dress, give her a positive comment. She will surely like it and it will through the essence of romance in the air.

Now that you are aware of couple of dos and don’ts make sure you follow them to make your vacation a memorable experience. So what are you waiting for plan for a much needed vacation with your partner and enjoy being with her.

2009 Maybach Landaulet

There are cars and then there is The 2009 Maybach Landaulet ! This is not your ordinery Maybach you see on the streets. To get a new (Base model) 2009 Maybach Landaulet will run you around 1.380+ million… yeah, over 1.3 million (US dollars) and that for the base…so with all the options this baby can cost your around 1.5 mil. The Landaulet has a V12 engine and its 604 Horsepower. This car is a show stopper as well as a traffic jammer! I have sat in a regular Maybach before but this baby is different and I’m sure will ride much more smoother…just knowing the price of the car – even if the ride was rough, you still would not feel it since you know back of your mind how much they cost..

2009 Maybach Landaulet

2009 Maybach Landaulet

The best part of this Sweet ride is the rooftop…

2009 Maybach Landaulet

2009 Maybach Landaulet