Dating can be a difficult road to travel these days. It can be nerve wracking and disappointing but at the same time so much fun and exciting. Follow these simple tips below to land yourself a great girl who wants to be known as yours.
1. The first thing most women look at when they notice a man is how he looks. Not so much if he’s the hottest guy in the room, but more of his hygiene. Hygiene is extremely important to women. Make sure that you are freshly showered, smell good, teeth brushed, clean shaven if that is your look, hair combed, and clothes looking nice, not wrinkled and shaggy. You will not attract a nice girl if you are not looking your best. Make it a habit to be that good looking man that walks into the club or the bar, wherever it is you are going.
2. Work on that personality. A lot of girls are first attracted to a man with a sense of humor. One that is naturally funny. Usually a sense of humor is placed over good looks when it comes to what women are attracted to in a man. Make your humor of a good nature. Do not make your first impression by making a bad, crude joke that will turn a girl off from the get go.
3. Get those compliments rolling. A girl always likes to get compliments, especially from an attractive man. Keep it minimal though. A couple compliments throughout the night is great. If you give too many you may end up looking desperate and actually have the lady feeling uncomfortable.
4. Learn how to carry on a conversation. Let the lady know a little bit about you without revealing your whole life story. Give them a little taste of who you are and what they can expect from you if they see you again. Do not be the one who talks the whole time. Allow the girl to give you some insight into her also. Take the time to actually listen to what she is telling you and let her know that you really do hear her. Body language is key here. Lean in to her and make eye contact.
5. Above all, be a gentleman. Do not be the type of guy that comes on so strong with a women the first time you meet her that you freak her out. Take the time to get to know her and give her the time to become comfortable with you. Stay away from taking advantage of her. If she makes the first move you be the one to stop it when it gets to a certain point. This lets her know loud and clear that you are not a jerk and you really do like her. When a girl thinks you are only about that booty call, most likely you will not be seeing her again.
These are only some tips to follow. There are many more things you can do when it comes to getting a girlfriend, as every women is different and likes different things. Just try to find that girl that makes you feel good and in turn you can do the same for her without compromising who you are or making her feel uncomfortable and wanting to run as fast as she can. Make her feel like she never wants to leave, but remember to keep it real.