You can keep your love life as exciting as that wonderful honeymoon was, says a prominent psychologist and sex counselor. She said, “At first, there is the excitement of discovering each other. Then, after the partners in the relationship become familiar with each other, they have to make an effort to keep that excitement alive.”

Here are 20 tips on how you can get zest and excitement into your love life:

1 Change your bedroom decor. Novelty brings excitement. Rearrange the furniture. Put a mirror on the ceiling. Add sensual satin sheets, new sheets in your mate’s favorite colors, incense, fresh flowers, and perhaps a red bulb in your bed-, side lamp. Mist the room with perfume. When storing your linens, place nice-smelling soap among them for a pleasant scent.

2. Greet your partner at night in a new negligee or a see-through blouse—or if you always wear pants or jeans, wear a dress or a skirt-and-blouse combination.

3. Read an erotic book together for stimulation.

4. Discuss your fantasies. An individual may have a fantasy for years but he or she may be embarrassed about it. Many men want their wives to seduce them but never say so, and women often want to seduce their husbands but are afraid of being thought of as being overly aggressive.

5. Take a bubble bath or shower, together. Soap each other.

6. Do the exciting things that you did during the courtship. For example, kiss each other in the car before going into the house when you have been out together.

7. Exercise. Lose weight if necessary. Exercise together to focus on your bodies. Being out of tune with your body diminishes the enjoyment you get from your love life.

8. Go on a healthy diet together for more energy. Also, eat the same food as one way of building sexuality up, since this is another way of focusing on your bodies together.

9. Compliment each other. Focus on some aspect of your mate’s body. Say, “You look great in that outfit,” or “I like your new haircut,” or “I love the way your eyes light up when you laugh.”

10. Take a vacation or a weekend trip together or just go to a hotel or motel for an evening. Try one with a water bed. Getting away from routine and daily pressures does wonders for your love life.

11. Have a candlelight dinner with your favorite dishes and perhaps some wine.

12: Learn to massage each other. Take -a massage class together or read a book on massage.

13. Have an evening of sensual touching. Use oils and explore each other’s bodies.

14. Take a belly-dance course, then show your mate what you have learned.

15. Learn to dance together. Go out dancing or dance together at home. Dancing is a sensual body movement that can be very seductive.

16. Talk to each other and relax together before going to bed. Silently watching television does little to put you in the mood for love.

17. Take a meditation course together to help you learn to relax.

18. Leave playful or seductive or loving notes for each other around the house.

19. Listen to some new exciting music in your bedroom together.

20. Don’t be afraid to be daring. Do what you feel like doing. For example, seduce your partner while watching television.

While hanging out or in a party, out of nowhere, you notice that someone is looking at you or standing close to you. In fact, you realize that that she is noticing you quiet often. The two of you might also strike a conversation and start to share a moment or laugh. While you might have not noticed, you already are a flirting expert.

Dating without flirting is no fun. It keeps you excited, involved and active all the time you flirt with someone. While flirting you are given your full 100% attention to someone and it does not only involve talking. Touching, smiling, winking and playing are some the other attributes of it. While to some flirting comes naturally, others need to gain the knowledge and start flirting. Either ways, it’s an easy and enjoyable thing to do during one’s life.

Broadly there are two aspects involved in flirting – Communication and Body language.

Communication:

• Make sure you smile or laugh in your conversations. It sends positive vibrations to your partner.
• Whisper gently in the ears of your partner often. This is an indication that you like him or her.
• Ask few personal questions especially on their relationship status – single, separated etc.

Body Language:

• Maintain an eye contact. This helps in building rapport and passes on the signal to your partner that you are interested in them.
• Wink at times especially after someone amongst both of you pass a comment.
• Lean inward to show that you are very much interested in the guy or gal you are dating.
• Stroking or toying your hair is another recommended thing to do.

Make sure that especially on your maiden date; the two of you strike the same notes. Keep conversing with each other and don’t contend. Therefore avoid debatable topics and talk more about each other’s interests, likings, hobbies and what are they doing on the coming weekend? If you are meeting up in a restaurant avoid alcohol if it’s your first date. Also ensure that you drop her till the most convenient point. This makes her think that you have a sense of belonging and she might stay safe while she is with you. Last but not the least; try to avoid talking about sex while flirting or on your first date. This will highlight that you are too impatient and have only one thing on mind.